6 May 2005 (Friday)
disappointment
Update: As persephone correctly pointed out in the comments, the Biblical Women Omer Calendar was, in fact, correct in placing Yom HaShoah on the twelfth day. And it should be obvious to everyone why I didn't pursue a career as a math professor.
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Today's figures in the Biblical Women Omer Calendar (which I talk about here) are Job's daughters (round two). After a moving description of why these women (and the very fact of their existence) are fitting for a day of Hod shebeGevurah (glory wthin strength or limitations), I read the following:
This day of the Omer is Yom haShoah, Holocaust Memorial Day, so it is appropriate to remember both victims of undeserved suffering and the new lives survivors have been able to build. Yemima, Ketziah, and Keren-happuch mark this day of mourning as well.
After double-checking that I have been counting correctly (I have) and that I was correct in observing Yom HaShoah yesterday (I was), I felt a great wave of disappointment and sadness wash over me. It's because of little mistakes like this that right-wingers and "traditionalists" reject new rituals and interpretations. Yom HaShoah, whose date (27 Nisan) is determined by the Jewish calendar, is always on the eleventh day of sefirat haOmer.
I can see how R' Jill Hammer* made the mistake initially; if you look at a calendar, yesterday would have been marked as "Holocaust Remembrance Day," and we counted 12 last night. But if you're going to put together a big document like that, and make a point of mentioning Yom HaShoah and establishing a relationship between it and its day of sefira, then you should at least double-check to make sure you have the days matched up properly! It also would have been perfectly appropriate, in my opinion, to have noted that today is the day after Yom HaShoah and that the existence of Job's daughters symbolizes the rebirth that comes after darkness and destruction. It also would have been apropos to suggest Dinah (yesterday's woman) and the quality of Netzach shebeGevurah (endurance within strength or limitation) as representative of Yom Hashoah...someone who has her life snatched away from her, who witnesses destruction on every side, and whose voice is silenced.
* Yes, I use the title "rabbi" for people who have received non-Orthodox semicha (ordination). If you don't like it, you can go hang.
And what will they list for the 3rd and 5th and 2nd of Iyyar? This year there are changes.
Shanna, my calendar has Yom Hashoah printed on Friday, and the 27th of Nisan was Friday too. I know we all observed it on Thursday, but is it possible that it's one of those things that gets pushed back whenever it falls on a Friday? I think that happens with Yom Haatzmaut, too...
Wow, seph, another gold star for you! You're right, and I feel dumb now.
Want to feel dumb? How about forgetting to count on the SECOND NIGHT of the omer? :(
No gold star for me, but more importantly, no cheesecake.
We almost did that. I think Julian remembered to count without a bracha around 4:00 in the afternoon on Tuesday and was kind enough to call and remind me to do the same. I don't think it's something to feel dumb about...I'm much dumber than you are. Besides, since when does not counting = no cheesecake?
Hey, Shanna ,a voice from the past ,wasup?! If you are the Shanna I think you are we have to talk! Are you related to anyone in KS named DORN! Write back ASAP! grassyass!